You Aren’t Picky, You Know What You Want

You Aren’t Picky, You Know What You Want

In November 2010, while sitting next to a guy who didn’t love me, I swore I wouldn’t date again unless the guy was incredibly special. I had been told numerous times I was too picky or expecting too much. Yet, I decided that dating guys who didn’t...
Life Changed, But What Do I Tell You?

Life Changed, But What Do I Tell You?

We should do lunch you say. Catch up you say. It’s been years my friend. We are different people than we were then. I know I was very different. It’s been lifetimes since then, even if the actual number is closer to 15. To borrow from Star Trek…...

Changing One Person

Here is the deal… I’ve been thinking about this for quite a while. The way I see it, there are only two truths in this world. Once you learn those, accept those and live by those, everything else will fall into place.  I said I would discuss both in this...

My Relationship Mistakes

As the last relationship ended, I realized it was time to take a hard look at what mistakes were being made in my relationships. Life is about improvement, and analyzing your past and repeated mistakes can help you grow and improve your future. Since my goal involves...

How I Became Spock…

Sadly we interpret things through very strange lenses as children. We catch statements and make them our truths even when they are meant to be a statement or information for the time. Things change, and statements said are sometimes said carelessly. Thus it was, yet I...

Happy Halloween and That Guy in NM

Today is Halloween, The 2nd part of the title is a promise I made. 🙂   October 31st is also the 11th birthday of my black cat. Estimated birthday was end of October, what better day for him? Serendipity Serendipity brought this cat to me. I was a youth minister at the...