I Choose to See the Good

Yesterday I told you about the day after Thanksgiving. While it felt good to see him again after a year (to the day), and even kiss him, it felt pretty crummy to keep his touches appropriate. It felt good that he said he’d like to see me again and was planning...

Self Respect Clarity

In order to make people happy I have compromised. I have agreed with things because it would make someone else happy or at least not mad. Even if this meant I didn’t enjoy it, I could tolerate it because the other person was more important than me. The problem...

One Truth, Say It With Love

Love vs hate I have discussed before that my family dealt very heavily in hatred. While my parents made a choice to change, it is still there. But hatred is something that is everywhere. Look around, how many people are ready to tell you gossip, petty stories, be...

Special Anniversary

Today is a birthday and anniversary. Not an anniversary with someone, but an anniversary nonetheless.  It is also the very same day that became the Maine Coon Cat’s birthday.  The vet marked it as Lilo’s birthday when she first went to the vet at 6 weeks...

The War of Love and Hate

First, the blog was changed to indicate this is my journal  ♥ Hope you like it.  Second I’m sorry this post is so long.  Now onto the war of love and hate. Sadly this war has been going on forever…. you may never see it or one day witness it firsthand. I...