Change is often not taken well. Most people do not like change no matter how big or how small the change is. Often what people dislike is how a little change can mean a perspective change, either your own or in others.
Can I change perspective?
Wright Brothers make a change
Just like being able to stand on a ladder to change your point of view, you can change your perspective in life. Alternative answers are available when your perspective changes. You may be surprised at how many solutions could be right in front of you.
Reading books on a subject you want to change is a great way. You can ask others what they would do. Perhaps you need a break or to spend time on a task that is completely different and the alternative answers will appear. Another is just taking a problem and considering alternative solutions. Create a list of solutions, it does not matter if the solutions seem crazy or impossible for you to do.
What if my alternative solutions are impossible?
It was impossible for man to fly, and in 1903 the Wright Brothers proved it was not impossible. Then it was impossible for man to go to the moon and just 66 years later that became possible. In the far out solutions there may be enough information to piece together a viable solution for you. If you solution is moving, but you can not move, perhaps if you tried going to church and doing things in another city or neighborhood. There are alternative answers if you just look.
Live, Learn, Love,
MJ Schrader
Yes, being a site designer and a writer may seem very different but they are just two pieces of who I am.